{"id":2393,"date":"2016-04-05T16:59:44","date_gmt":"2016-04-05T16:59:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/7-tips-for-creating-home-no-matter-where-you-go\/"},"modified":"2023-04-20T18:11:43","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T18:11:43","slug":"7-tips-for-creating-home-no-matter-where-you-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/blog\/7-tips-for-creating-home-no-matter-where-you-go\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Tips For Creating Home No Matter Where You Go"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Words: Christie Leigh Babirad<\/p>\n

Photo credit: Amanda Large, Bella Grace Issue 3<\/a><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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When I was little, I built forts with my brother, whether it was in the living room with chairs put together and blankets for a roof, or in the backseat of the car on long trips, setting up the blanket as our creative wall between us. I had my space, and he had his. <\/strong><\/p>\n

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We may not have survived those trips with all the fire and dreams inside of us if we weren\u2019t able to be alone! It\u2019s no surprise that when we would arrive home from these trips, we would dash out of the car, grabbing all the stuff we accumulated, and we were already on our way to doing or pursuing whatever was turning in our heads on the drive \u2014 like the birth of my detective agency, or my act for the elementary school talent show.<\/p>\n

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I don\u2019t know why there is such a stigma or fear with having alone time as we get older, and yet we crave it all the while. Alone time is right! Alone time can be magical!<\/p>\n

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Now read carefully, because I\u2019m about to give you THE SECRET to creating your own “me” time.<\/p>\n

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The secret to carving out your alone time is making alone time a requirement in your day. It\u2019s about finding home inside of you \u2014 finding out what you love deep down, and pulling that up each day. Here\u2019s what you can do to find home and carve out your own special pocket of alone time:<\/p>\n

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1.\u00a0Wake up early. <\/strong>If your work day starts very early, it\u2019s good to make a habit of setting your alarm for at least one hour before you need to physically get started.<\/p>\n

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\"Grace<\/a><\/p>\n

(Photo credit: Jillian Lukiwsk<\/span>i<\/a>, Bella Grace Issue 3<\/a><\/span>)<\/em><\/p>\n

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2. Make a car-specific music playlist or take a quiet drive to your destination.<\/strong> Let your mind wander, and once again, find home in its wanderings. Think about where you\u2019re at and what you\u2019re doing. Does it reflect your life positively? If it does not, what else would you like to do? Consider your options and open your mind to the bigger picture. Think. Dream. Believe. Appreciate.<\/p>\n

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3.\u00a0Spend the night in.<\/strong> We don\u2019t always need to be going out and staying forever overscheduled. In doing this, you\u2019re ultimately not creating order in your heart. Put on those favorite pajamas, get cozy in a comfortable chair, and reflect back on all that you loved as a child. Why not go back and reminisce a little? It\u2019s still who you are. Go ahead, put on Full House<\/em>, and binge watch a little \u2014 \u201cYou got it, dude!\u201d<\/p>\n

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4.\u00a0Color!<\/strong> Coloring is great for relaxation, and freeing your mind.<\/p>\n

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5. Pick up an instrument<\/strong> you haven\u2019t played in a while, paint, write, try out a new poetry style, or revisit a favorite book.<\/p>\n

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\"Grace<\/a><\/p>\n

(Photo Credit: Elizabeth Lehman<\/a><\/span>, Bella Grace Issue 3<\/a><\/span>)<\/em><\/p>\n

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6. Take yourself out on a date.<\/strong> Go to your favorite caf\u00e9 with your art, or book in tow, or to a museum, or the park, or wherever you would like. It\u2019s your date<\/a><\/span>, so put on a favorite outfit, and revel in all that you are, and all that you love!<\/p>\n

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7. Put aside some time at work to be alone. <\/strong>Make the most of your lunch break by finding a quiet corner where you will be undisturbed. Even if it is just a fifteen minute break, let the quiet enter you. Meditate, reflect, and use the time for YOU!<\/p>\n

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Home can be found no matter where you go. Whether you are at home or out, the mind gets busy. Home is always there inside of you, but it needs to have attention, like any relationship. Your fort needs to be built into your daily life \u2014 the place you go to where no one else is allowed in but you. It\u2019s a place you can always draw up, and realize all the more that you are unique, special, and you are meant to live a beautiful, magical, and adventurous life!<\/p>\n

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Christie Leigh Babirad lives in Long Island, New York. Her blog \u201cLiving in Dark Blue\u201d with the premise, \u2018to be passionately following your heart,\u2019 can be found at christieleigh87.blogspot.com<\/a><\/span><\/em>. She welcomes email at christieleigh.babirad@gmail.com<\/a><\/span><\/em>. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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