{"id":2420,"date":"2016-11-15T17:42:57","date_gmt":"2016-11-15T17:42:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/the-other-list\/"},"modified":"2023-04-20T18:11:46","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T18:11:46","slug":"the-other-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/blog\/the-other-list\/","title":{"rendered":"The Other List"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/blog\/the-other-list\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2773\" src=\"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/The-Other-List-by-Aaron-Burden.jpg\" alt=\"The Other List by Aaron Burden\" width=\"800\" height=\"601\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"artcred\">\n\tWords: <span style=\"color: #ca877f;\"><a style=\"color: #ca877f;\" href=\"\" target=\"_blank\"> Suzanne Walcher<\/a><\/span>\n\t<br\/>\n\tPhoto credit: <span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"\" target=\"_blank\">Aaron Burden<\/a><\/span>\n\t<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBeware the barrenness of a busy life.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u2014 Socrates<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Preparing for a trip recently, I found myself overwhelmed with an especially long to-do list.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As I plowed through each task, diligently checking off the completed items, it suddenly occurred to me that many activities I consider essential \u2014 the kind that make my heart glad \u2014 never get jotted down the way that <em>stop the mail <\/em>or <em>water the plants <\/em>do.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So for fun, and as a break from the more mundane jobs I was tackling, I turned over the to-dos, and on the other side of the paper, created <em>The Other List.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Kiss my husband. [Repeat!]<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Dab some lavender oil on my wrists, pausing to rub them together and inhale the soothing scent.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cuddle my dog, my faithful companion who gratefully leans in when I slow down and hold her close.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Spend five minutes stretching.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Send an <\/strong><strong><em>I am thinking of you <\/em><\/strong><strong>text to a friend.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Light a favorite candle\u2026.or two or three.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Laugh with my kids. [I listed this twice.]<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Turn on some music. Sing\u2026.loudly!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll admit that yes, sadly, there are days when these simple, wonderful things do not happen amongst all of the ceaseless to-dos. Regularly consulting <em>The Other List <\/em>as I tackled my ordinary docket of chores, anticipating both the action and the ticking off of each sweet entry, brought me immense satisfaction.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It also helped me to ensure that another day did not slip away where I hadn\u2019t taken the time to \u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Sing<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Cuddle<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Laugh<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Kiss<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Stretch<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong><em>Love<\/em><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Or appreciate the many, many small joys of our human journey.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Socrates, wise man that you were, I\u2019m listening.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Will you join me?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Suzanne Walcher&#8217;s busy Midwest life includes her husband, two children and sweet Gracie dog.\u00a0 Besides writing to-do lists, she shares her thoughts at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.privetandholly.com\">www.privetandholly.com<\/a>, capturing moments that are beautiful, ordinary and often, in between.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Tell us, what will you write on your Other List?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; \u201cBeware the barrenness of a busy life.\u201d\u00a0\u2014 Socrates &nbsp; &nbsp; Preparing for a trip recently, I found myself overwhelmed with an especially long to-do list. &nbsp; &nbsp; As I plowed through each task, diligently checking off the completed items, it suddenly occurred to me that many activities I consider essential \u2014 the kind [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":1024,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[128,131,129,130,101,66],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2420","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-everyday-magic","category-gratitude","category-inspiration","category-lifes-beautiful-journey","category-lovely-lists","category-writing"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2420","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2420"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2420\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1024"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bellagracemagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}