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Photo credit: Lyuba Burakova, Field Guide Issue 10<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/p>\n

\u201cRemember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.\u201d \u2014 Scott Adams<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every year around this time, heart-shaped candies and bouquets of red roses adorn the aisle ways of grocery stores and phrases like \u201cBe Mine\u201d are displayed in shop windows everywhere we look.<\/p>\n

And every year around this time, we begin our search for the perfect gift to present to a loved one as a sign of affection because it\u2019s Valentine\u2019s Day. That\u2019s what February 14th\u00a0is all about, right?<\/p>\n

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If we take the time to dig a little deeper, I believe the true meaning of Valentine\u2019s Day is much more significant than flowers and cards. The true meaning of Valentine\u2019s Day is about expressing love and gratitude while showing kindness to others.\u00a0Yet, we must remember spreading kindness should not be confined to one day a year. Love and kindness are acts worthy of being practiced daily and for no other reason than \u201cjust because.\u201d Paying for a stranger\u2019s coffee, holding the door for someone behind you \u2026 these simple gestures can make all the difference.<\/p>\n

Kindness advocate, Houston Kraft said, \u201cKindness is not usually our default setting. We spend so much time worrying about our problems, our lives, our comfort, our insecurities, getting to our flight – that we walk by or ignore people in need of kindness every day.\u201d<\/p>\n

At Bella Grace<\/em><\/a>, we encourage you to deviate from the norm. Find it in your heart to go out of your way to make someone\u2019s day a little bit better, to lift their spirits a little bit higher.<\/p>\n

Our Readers Share 21 Beautiful, Random Acts of Kindness They Experienced and The Impacts Each Had on Them<\/h3>\n

1.\u201cI was out to eat with my husband and our three young kids. When it came time to pay the bill, the server told us it had been taken care of by another couple. They had already gone, but had left us a note reminding us to enjoy our little ones. Sometimes in the fast-paced world we live in, we forget to slow down and just enjoy the moment we are in. I think of this night often and remember to slow down and live in the moment.\u201d \u2014 Bailey Nelson<\/p>\n

2. \u201cAfter a long day at work, my mind was mush. I was heading upstairs to my apartment when a guy held the door open for me and insisted I go in front of him with a big smile on his face. That one act of gentlemanly kindness and friendliness made my day. You can often take holding doors open, or a \u2018you go first\u2019 gesture for granted. But to me, it makes me feels like a proper lady in a Jane Austen novel around this type of gentleman. It still brings a smile to my face!\u201d \u2014 Sharon Carson<\/p>\n

3. \u201cOur school is participating in kindness week. This morning I made a new batch of a coconut lime body scrub and I brought a jar to our principal. I don’t think too many people randomly give her gifts. She was so happy and hugged me for thinking of her. It filled my heart with joy to make another human being happy.\u201d \u2014 Kelly Kardos<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWe don’t have a lot of homeless where I live (which is great), but there is this one spot off the highway where sometimes someone will sit. The other weekend I saw someone sitting there as we were on our way to Wal-Mart to pick up something random. Instead, my boys and I gathered things we thought he may need. We then went down the highway in the opposite direction and turned around so that we could come down the ramp and hand off the package. He said thank you and immediately started looking through the bag. I could hardly stop crying, I felt so overwhelmed. That night, when their dad came home, it was the first thing the boys told him about our day.\u201d \u2014 Joy Huber<\/p>\n

5. \u201cI have a sweet friend that makes an effort every week to contact me in some way or another. Sometimes a call or a text, other times a visit. No matter the method, she is always positive and upbeat. There have been many times that her contact has been the thing I needed to get through the day or week. She doesn’t know, but somehow I think she does know, somewhere deep in her soul. It’s amazing to have people like that in your life.\u201d \u2014 Shelley Rounds<\/p>\n

6. \u201cA few weeks ago, a woman I don’t know well comforted me while I was crying in a church washroom. She gave me her phone number and said I could text her anytime if I wanted to talk. She shared some of her own bad experiences with me and we both felt less alone afterwards.\u201d \u2014 Rebecca Riley<\/p>\n

7. \u201cI was ordering coffee from a coffee kiosk and had already taken my first yummy sip. I handed my card over to the cashier to pay but she looked at me and said, \u2018Sorry our card machine is offline.\u2019 There were no ATM’s anywhere so I grabbed my wallet, but I hardly had any cash in it. Suddenly, a young teenager walked up behind me and said, \u2018How much do you need?\u2019 I told him, \u2018No, it’s fine. I can’t take your money!\u2019 He smiled, politely said it again, and then paid for my coffee and walked away. I just stood watching him walk off. I realized that day that I wanted to pay him back for the kindness he had showed me, but I needed to learn how to receive it without thinking I needed to pay kindness back. It was a deep lesson because many times I have felt guilty receiving kindness. I’m ever so grateful for that young guy!\u201d \u2014 Lauren Jacobs<\/p>\n

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Photo credit: Anna Rozhkova, Field Guide Issue 15<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n

8. \u201cI live in the Northwoods. An office girl friend walked into the office on the coldest day of the year and gave every girl a bottle of Pear and Brown Sugar Lotion \u2026 took the chill out of an incredibly dreary day.\u201d \u2014 @lines_letters<\/p>\n

9. \u201cMy husband and I both had the flu earlier this month. His mother had passed away that same week. We needed to get well to drive 750 miles for her service. A day or two before we were to leave, it started snowing \u2026 8 inches, which is a lot for Charlotte, NC. The next morning, we woke up to our neighbors shoveling our driveway. Another neighbor brought over her homemade chicken and dumplings and a dozen eggs from her farm. Later that day, homemade soup and a basket of oranges were delivered by two other neighbors. It was unexpected, and we were overwhelmed with this outpouring of kindness.\u201d \u2014 Debara Splendorio<\/p>\n

10. \u201cSomeone saw me out to dinner with just me and my 3-year-old twins. My husband and I work opposite schedules so sometimes I feel like a single mom, and it’s not what I signed up for. That day, you wouldn’t have known it on the outside, but tears were flowing on the inside. I felt so lonely, like all the hard work I put in with my kids went unnoticed and almost taken advantage of. We got finished eating and the waitress said someone paid for our food. The note on the receipt said \u2018You are an incredible mother.\u2019 And had a $25 gift card for the next time we came. It wasn’t about the money. That day I needed to be seen and affirmed, and her kindness renewed my sense of purpose and faith in humanity.\u201d \u2014 Rashaun James<\/p>\n

11. \u201cI assisted a veteran with his debit card micro chip at Starbucks. He was so grateful for the assistance. In return, the cashier gave me a free drink. It was so unexpected.\u201d \u2014 Amy Uhe Leone<\/p>\n

12. \u201cMy friend, Bonnie, surprised me with her homemade biscotti and a generous supply of tea bags. That gesture lifted my spirits, made my day, and made me realize the importance of true friendship.\u201d \u2014 Peggy Noon Clark<\/p>\n

13. \u201cI came to work to find out my sweet friend had spent her weekend staying up until 3am crocheting me a baby burp cloth for my future baby. I will always treasure it. It made me feel so loved and, most importantly, she taught me to have faith and hope in my future.\u201d \u2014Savanna Rosenow<\/p>\n

14. \u201cA good friend knows I\u2019m on a tight budget, so she sent me a case of Starbucks Veranda K-cups for my morning coffee.\u201d \u2014 Brenda Nuland<\/p>\n

15. \u201cAt Christmas, I was at my local USPS to send out two packages to family members. I didn\u2019t realize how much the postage would cost and it was more than I could afford. I was embarrassed and sad that I would only be able to send one. The kind gentleman behind me overheard and paid the difference without hesitation. That single act lifted my spirits that day. It is moments like this that inspire me to do good for other people.\u201d \u2014 Laura Lee Wise<\/p>\n

16. \u201cThe last time someone showed me a random act of kindness was just minutes ago. They left an encouraging comment on my Instagram post. It warmed my heart and put a boost in my step. Words are powerful.\u201d \u2014 @intentionalrust<\/p>\n

17. \u201cThere was a homeless man in front of a local drug store asking people if anyone knew where he could go find food. Most completely ignored him. I watched him walk to the side of the store and sit down against the wall. I went in and bought two bags of food and bottled water and gave them to him as I left. He thanked me with tears in his eyes. He was tearing into some granola bars as I drove off. It was my turn for tears. I pray he made it somewhere safe.\u201d \u2014 DeAnna Clark Wisman<\/p>\n

18. \u201cMy father passed away recently. He had been living with me since my mother passed away many years ago. I called a friend to ask her to contact a catering company and plan the menu [for his service] since this was just something I did not want to do. She didn\u2019t do what I asked, she did something even better! She organized my friends and they all pitched in to make food for 75 people. It was wonderful to have friends support me in my time of need, showing me and my family their love for my dad. Their kind and generous hearts eased a burden and warmed my soul.\u201d \u2014 @photocate8<\/p>\n

19. \u201cSomething as seemingly mundane as holding a door open for me. In a world of busyness and self-absorption, this simple act conveys the comforting thought, \u201cI see you. You matter.\u201d \u2014 Andrea O\u2019Loughlin<\/p>\n

20. \u201cIt was a few years ago, I was standing in the middle of my street in my PJ\u2019s and underwear staring at what was once my home. I was aware of the news media and many people around me. My mind was in complete disarray. Out of the blue, a woman I had never met before, who I suppose just happened to be in the middle of a morning jog, reached out and grabbed my hand. She placed $35 in it and continued on her way. At that very moment, I was having a traumatic experience that only escalated as the day progressed, but it was her random act of kindness that made me appreciate what it is to be human. Today, I seek to relive that kindness whenever I can.\u201d \u2014 Alicia Greenman<\/p>\n

21. \u201cI was at the end of a day when my soul was tired. I work with children at my church, and I was cleaning up from the evening art activity when I found a note, face down. It said, \u201cTo Miss Kathy.\u201d When I turned it over, this sweet child had painted a rainbow and written, \u201cGod loves you, Miss Kathy.\u201d The words and the painting were so dear, but what touches me even more was that she left it for me to find. She didn\u2019t hand it to me to gain something for herself. She did this as a pure gesture of love, and I felt that deeply. As I turned out the light and left for home, my heart was light and my being felt refreshed.\u201d \u2014 Kathy Guisewite<\/p>\n

When was the last time you showed kindness to someone \u201cjust because?\u201d Share with us in the comments.<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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